It can't be a "toxic relationship" if it is not a relationship....

How can you say

The way I see it: I am just getting rid of a toxic relationship

if the one thing that you were certain about, the one thing that made that period painful (in my words) or toxic (in yours) was the fact that I loved you and you simply were not willing to work on having a relationship.

How can you claim something was a relationship when, when you were there, you did everything you could to convince me that it was no such thing?